Getting negative feedback from your boss is not a joyride. In fact, it can be devastating. But it doesn’t have to ruin your career.
Recently I coached a talented manager who had received a not great performance review that could impact her career advancement. It’s happened to me. My first reaction was to go home and hide under the bed covers – not a very mature response.
But the next day, I let go of my embarrassment and started a list of concrete actions that would lead to performance improvement.
I then went to my boss, now feeling more confident, and reviewed my list. We agreed on two improvement areas; scheduled training and special assignments to develop specific skills; and finally set a time table to keep me on track.
Here’s what I learned from the experience.
1. Don’t react; rather reflect.
It’s far too easy to be defensive. Let the results sink in before you do anything. Does the feedback ring true? Is there concrete evidence? Does it resonate with things you’ve heard in the past?
2. Be focused on what matters most.
What are the two or three things you can start working on immediately to get results? It’s important to show improvement quickly so you won’t get labeled as a poor performer.
3. Get support from others.
Ask your manager, as well as other key people (peers, direct reports, mentors, etc) to give you regular feedback as you make the needed changes. Avoid vague questions like: “How am I doing?” Rather, ask for specific feedback. “How was my presentation on target and off target?”
How did this manager turn around a career setback?
She admitted she was a perfectionist – detailed oriented, very cautious to take a stand fearing it may be the wrong decision. That led to her projects getting behind schedule. So she decided to improve her delegation, decision making and communication skills. She also kept her manager in the loop and requested regular feedback from him.
Bottom Line
Her projects are meeting the milestones set by her boss; she is more self assured and able to let go of responsibility and authority; and she’s back on a career track for advancement.
Smart Moves Career Tip:
Get back in the saddle. It’s hard to rebuild confidence after slipping up. But don’t let it stop you from taking risks, taking actions. Winners win more frequently than losers because they stay in the game. The key is not to let your errors make you afraid of being innovative, taking risks and finding better ways to do things.
Readers, how have you turned around a poor performance review?
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Copyright © 2011 Marcia Zidle - the Actualizer – career strategist and leadership coach.
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